7 Golden rules in life

1st 
Don’t let someone become a priority in your life, when you are just an option in their life…Relationships work best when they are balanced.

2nd 
Never explain yourself to anyone. Because the person who likes you doesn’t need it, and the person who dislikes you won’t believe it. 

3rd 
When you keep saying you are busy, then you are never free. When you keep saying you have no time, then you will never have time. When you keep saying that you will do it tomorrow, then your tomorrow will never come. 

4th 
When we wake up in the morning, we have two simple choices. Go back to sleep and dream, or wake up and chase those dreams. Choice is yours… 

5th 
We make them cry who care for us. We cry for those who never care for us. And we care for those who will never cry for us. This is the truth of life, it’s strange but true. Once you realize this, it’s never too late to change.

6th 
Don’t make promises when you are in joy. Don’t reply when you are sad. Don’t take decision when you are angry. 

7th 
Time is like a river. You can’t touch the same water twice, because the flow that has passed will never pass again. Enjoy every moment of life

活在當下

某天晚上，以色列的所羅門王做了一個夢。在夢中他遇到了一位智者。智者說了一句至理名言，涵蓋了古今人類所有的智慧。所羅門王聽完後茅塞頓開，感覺人生十分美好，充滿了希望，無論得意或失意，他都能夠保持平常心。

但是，所羅門王隔天早上醒來後，卻怎麼也想不起夢中智者告訴他的那句至理名言。於是，所羅門王找來幾位最有智慧的老臣，向他們敘述那個夢境，試圖想出那句至理名言來。接着所羅門王從懷裏掏出一枚大戒指說：「如果你們想出那句至理名言，我就會將它刻在這枚戒指上。我要把這枚戒指天天戴在手指上，時刻提醒自己。」

一星期後，幾位老臣興奮地來到皇宮，把戒指呈給所羅門王。戒指上面刻了一句可以讓他永遠保持快樂和希望的至理名言：「活在當下」。

我們所擁有的資產當中，最彌足珍貴的是「現在」、是「當下」。如不好好珍惜和善用它，它會一瞬即逝，永不回頭，令我們虛度光陰、一事無成。活在當下，善用當下，就能活出生命的彩虹。

有些人總是愛抱怨這個、咒罵那個，覺得眼前的一切都看不順眼、很不滿意，指望下一個當下會更好。到下一個當下真的來臨時，還是這樣那樣的不滿意，指望再下一個當下會更好。這樣一來，人生就在不斷的期待與抱怨之間渾渾噩噩地過去了，最後一事無成。所羅門王的這句至理名言，值得我們銘記。

节日

今天冬至，祝大家团园，接下来就是圣诞节和新年。也顺便祝大家圣诞节和新年快乐。事事顺利。